Be a Giver

Most people are focused only on what they get out of the relationship. It's all about fulfilling their own pleasure. It's selfish. This isn't how you get far in relationships and life. It will just make you stuck in your own limited mindset.

Business culture has created a mindset where unless you are hustling, grinding, and getting, you won't go far in life, which in my opinion is an education washing just as brain washing.
Not everything has to be a win-win business. Be human, not a brand. Because the best and the longest lasting relationships are where the both sides give and give, and give without counting.

Who is a Giver?

The natural giver is someone who gives without expecting anything in return.
People like gifts. They don’t necessarily like barter. And they really don’t like feeling like they owe anyone anything. 
A giver is the kind of human who whore his heart on his sleeve and loved nothing more than to do nice things for others.

They don't let others ask, they go and do what they are capable of.

Think of Others

Thinking of others means that you put their potential needs in front of your eyes, even if they didn't ask your help, you have to help them over.

• If they had a horrible day, you'd give them a warm hug and talk about what went wrong.
• If they need money, drive to the bank and hand them the cash.No matter the amout is huge or small. Just help them out with their bills.
• If they got sick, you’d make homemade green godess soup and deliver it right to their door.

Don't hesitate, just lend them a hand.

Why givers win

The fascinating secret is: givers gain big.
When you choose to be a giver, you make a right

" The person at the dinner party who only talks about himself never gets invited back"
Giving is a long-term strategy, you will get the fruits of your kindnes maybe the next day, or the next week or even after years. But surely, you will see it just put your trust in that.

Givers make you smile, help you, understand the insider nuances you will miss as an outsider, and fight for your best interests. The are able to create a joyful atmosphere.

Good gift-giver..

Surprise your friends and family with thoughtful gifts, acts and words. This generous nature will give you a way to connect with others.

Give to the Right People

This may sound harsh but there are the right people to give your precious time to, and there are the wrong people. The right people are those that will make great use of your gifts. They are working on big problems for large communities. In this way, they give you leverage and create outsized outcomes when you give your time. If you are making a charitable contribution, you want to make sure the charity is effective. Be just as discerning with how you give away your time. So, that guy who just seems to suck up your time and never changes or never creates any value for others with what you provide him? He may need to fall off the list.


No matter where you are or what you're doing or who you're with, be alway there for the people who need you.

And remember: The world gives to the givers and takes from the takers.